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Lets honor Trayvon by giving him justice




By now most of the nation knows what happened a little over a month ago in Sanford, Fl.

28-year-old Caucasian/Hispanic George Zimmerman shot and killed 17-year-old African American Trayvon Martin. The basics of the story have been covered by all major news outlets, blogs, and the like, so I will not go into them here.

The media firestorm that has arisen from this story is comparable to that of the Casey Anthony case. And some people don't understand why people have gotten so upset, or think that the cries of "racism" are erroneous. I'm writing this post to showcase why they are NOT erroneous, to talk about the different levels of racism that this case has brought to the forefront, and in hopes
that by using my own personal soap box that I can help, even if in a small way.

Some people think that the big deal is whether Zimmerman is/isn't racist. And some people have gone as far as saying that they are happy that Zimmerman is not fully white, as if the fact that he is half Hispanic changes anything. I am full blooded Hispanic, and I can tell you that it changes NOTHING. It is clear to me that Zimmerman was stereotyping when targeting Trayvon Martin. Trayvon was black, was wearing a hoodie, and looked some sort of kind of way that made Zimmerman feel uncomfortable.



Furthermore, people are focusing on part of Zimmerman's ethnicity instead of his race, and this means a lot. Ethnically Zimmerman may be half Hispanic, but his race is White. We have these same separations in Hispanic countries. I am a Black Hispanic (Afro Caribbean) and there are White Hispanics, Indian Hispanics, and so on. Hispanic countries, and Hispanic people, are just as racist as other countries, including this one. So once again, Zimmerman may be part Hispanic, but his race is White.

I emphasize that not only to point out that just because he is Hispanic it means that he wasn't racist and that he wasn't stereotyping, but also because I think that his Anglo last name and white skin had a lot to do with the reaction of the police. Had Zimmerman been named Reyes, or Garcia, or some other Hispanic sounding last name none of this may have happened. It is very likely that he would have been arrested. Had the story been the other way around, had Trayvon shot Zimmerman, even in self-defense, I believe Trayvon would have been arrested. Because this is the way the system works in this country, and this is the second level of racism I wanted to talk about.

Don't believe me? Check this case out, which also took place in Florida. Quintavis Seay is African American, and was 16 when three brothers jumped him and his friend. Seay didn't know the brothers, but apparently they were jumping the two boys out of retaliation for an earlier fight in which the friend that he was walking with was involved. The brothers left the friend almost unconscious before turning to Seay. Seay took out a gun, said he tried to shoot the air, but one of the bullets hit one of the brothers, who later died.

Seay was not granted the same immunity that Zimmerman has been awarded, even though the same law applies to both cases. The Florida Stand Your Ground law states that: "A person [...] who is attacked [...] has no duty to retreat and has the right to stand his or her ground and meet force with force, including deadly force." The same law that protects a White Hispanic is leaving yet another black kid to rot in the system.

The next reason why this case has angered so many, and why we have many reasons to believe there are racial motives behind it is the fact that Zimmerman still hasn't been arrested. The evidence is growing stronger and stronger to the fact that Zimmerman is lying about his side of the story. He claims self defense. He claims that Trayvon punched him repeatedly, and bashed his head against the ground. Yet the funeral director who took care of Martin's body said there were no signs that Trayvon had punched anyone in the manner in which Zimmerman claims.

Zimmerman also claimed that the cries for help in the 911 call where his, not Trayvon's, yet experts in voice identification say that it was Trayvon screaming for help, not Zimmerman. The young boy who saw part of the scuffle said he saw someone on the ground crying for help, and someone on top of them. If that's the case, then clearly Zimmerman had Trayvon pinned down before shooting him. Which means that it was no longer self defense. Yet Zimmerman still walks free, and we have no news as to whether is going to be prosecuted or not.

Frankly, I don't understand it. I try to comprehend, but I can't. And it angers me. It angers me that a boy and his family were robbed simply because they had the "wrong" skin color. They were robbed of his life, and now they are robbed of justice. It also worries me. If racism can be so blatant, and still people refuse to face it, address it, and admit that there is a problem that desperately needs to be fixed, will it ever be fixed?

Some people are saying that this is advent of the next wave of Civil Rights activism. I hope so. I hope so not only for the change that this country desperately needs in order to fully give equality to people of all races, but also because it means that Trayvon's senseless death will not be in vain. I know a lot of people are tired of hearing about the case, but we can't stop talking about it. We can't forget about it until Trayvon gets justice and until change happens. Let's ensure his death was not in vain.
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CoverGirl Coquette

I don't tend to wear lipstick, but a couple months back I decided to buy a couple of them, and try my luck at them. One of my purchases was CoverGirl's Coquette (number 375).



I have tried this lipstick on numerous times, and to be honest, it took me a minute to get used to it. I just don't think it's the best for my complexion (which, by the way, I have a lot of yellow undertones). After putting it on, and putting it on, it has grown on me. I do think that is best for other complexions. One of my friends tried it on, and it looked AMAZING on her. She has a lighter skin than I do, and olive undertones.

The color is a pastel pink, but in some ways it borderlines on neon. It doesn't last an extraordinary amount of time, just a couple of hours or so, just like most lipsticks this price ($7).

Check it out below:




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Trimming Natural Hair ends

I wanted to try a different method to trim my ends, and I tried the braiding method. Check it out:






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Curls to Love: Tammy from CurlyChics



This woman is beautiful, intelligent, and definitely has some curls to love! Meet Tammy, from CurlyChics.

Tell me about yourself. It doesn't have to be about hair. Where are you from? What are your passions?

I am a five-footer, single mama of two from Columbus, Ohio which doesn’t leave time for a lot of passions! However, I do love writing. I am a non-practicing licensed cosmetologist and I have a Bachelor’s Degree in Criminal Justice. So, if you go to court, I can catch you up on the legal logistics and get your do together! J


What do you like to blog about, besides hair?

CurlyChics blog is all about natural hair, but more specifically my hair. I often delve into topics that are influenced by hair such as fashion, community issues and pop culture. Product reviews and time spent breaking bread with family and friends are also topics of discussion.


What is your hair journey, or hair story?

Wow, where do I begin. I have 2 natural hair journeys. One began in 2002 which ended abruptly after 8 months of extreme frustration. I simply wasn’t ready for the commitment and did not possess the will or patience to see it through. Two short years later I started again with my transition. I had big chopped my relaxed hair before so I was not afraid of short hair it’s just not something I wanted to do again. I wanted to grow my hair out and would have done so relaxed or natural. Fast forward to 2012 and my natural hair and I are best friends, except for that annual color I apply to it. She doesn't particularly care for it because it does add to the work I have to do to maintain moisture, etc., however, I love the look and doubt I will ever stop coloring.



How did you feel about natural hair before going natural? How do you feel about it now?

I know that I subconsciously felt only people with “certain types” of hair could pull of a natural look and since I didn’t fall into that category, I never thought it was an option for me. I always loved the look of a full, thick mane but just thought it was unobtainable. Again, there were no blogs, You Tube, strong supportive natural hair communities at this point so I was stuck with my closed minded thoughts and no one to pull me out of them. I was also able to achieve a somewhat curly look by doing twist sets on my relaxed hair so that pacified me for a really long time. Now I know that for me, it is a lifestyle change and it’s a change I embrace daily. It’s like anything – it’s not rainbows and bubble gum everyday but the good definitely outweighs the bad.


What do you think contributed to your mindset change, from thinking your hair wasn't beautiful enough curly, to fully embracing it?

My hair stylist at the time introduced the notion of going relaxer free. I always trusted her judgment and knew she would take care of me once I sat in her chair so when she suggested it, it was a go. Doesn’t mean I didn’t complain and protest the entire time because let’s be real, transitioning is definitely a difficult route to go but I trusted what she was saying. You have to transition your way of thinking simultaneously. She was able to help me envision awesome results so I rode it out. For me it was deeper than hair though. I never thought I was good enough, period – not just my hair but since hair is a physical manifestation, it naturally affected my thoughts on that was well.


How do your views on hair affect how you treat your children's hair?

I relaxed my daughter’s hair at a very young age and I still feel horrible about that to this day but before you judge me, keep in mind that this is what it was. It was automatic – no thought process behind it. This is what my mother did to my hair, what her mother did to her hair, etc. so there you have it. Of course once I made the decision to see what my hair looked like underneath all the years of relaxed hair, I took the same approach with my daughter’s hair. I was struggling with two transitioning heads of hair – not easy. Of course my son is natural and he wears cornrows. Yeah, I said it…his hair is braided and he wears it out on occasion and I love it. I don’t know what age I will cut it to the standard caesar cut but for now I’m happy with his hair.



Tammy's beautiful son, during his 3rd birthday.

Do you think your views on hair have affected your daughter's views?

My daughter is a natural hair advocate as well. My views and opinions about life in general affect her and that includes hair.


What are your favorite products?

I have several that I like a lot and I rotate but the ones that never go out of rotation are Kinky Curly Knot Today, Karen’s Body Beautiful Butter Love, Bee Mine Be Hold Butter, and JessiCurl Deep Conditioning. In addition to my shea butter and coconut oil. These are products that I will use no matter what.


What was your go to style during transitioning, and what's your go to style now?

My transition period was inundated with heat, heat and more heat. I flat ironed my hair to death on a daily basis. I always tell people do not transition the way that I did. I had no clue about the damage I was doing to my hair. In my mind, natural hair could withstand anything so what was the difference. I was achieving growth but very minimal but I was told my hair wouldn't grow any longer, that it had reached its long point. I now know that was completely false! When you know better, you do better.


Would you like to add anything else?

Just that I am happy to have come across the natural hair social community. I don’t get into lecturing or telling people how to care for their hair, I simply say utilize your resources.


It will make for a much smoother and enjoyable journey.




Check more of Tammy out at CurlyChics, or her twitter page.



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My New Go-to Mix


I was playing around with some of my favorite oils (Coconut, Olive) and thinking about how much my hair loves Shea Butter, when I came up with a very simple (yet now essential part of my routine) mixture. Here it goes:



  • 2 tbs of coconut oil
  • 2 tbs of shea butter
  • 3 tbs of olive oil.

This creates about four ounces of oil. I put it in the microwave for 45 seconds, and although the shea butter is not completely melted, it does so by mixing it with a spoon (I don't want to get it too hot, since I transfer it to a plastic container. 45 seconds seems to be the perfect number for that amount of oil).


The mixture, before melting it.

Now, when I say table spoons, I mean actual table spoons (such as the one you eat soup with). I was afraid that my plastic mixing spoons would break in the hardness of the coconut oil. This always makes about 4 oz. of oil, which lasts me about 2 weeks, and which I use for E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G. When I get out of the shower. When I'm styling my hair, when I braid it at night. And my hair just loves it.


What go to mixture do YOU have?


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I'm back. No, for real. I am.


So my 2 month blogging hiatus turned into a 4 month one. When I apologized for disappearing, back in December, I had full intentions (and the complete belief that I would have the time) to begin blogging again. But once again, life happened.


Due to my financial aid I had to take condensed classed (for those of you in college or in academia, if you have dealt with summer classes, then you know what I’m talking about. My college offers summer-like condensed classes, but year around). These classes are intense, and I had a full load of them. On top of that, I achieved my New Year’s Resolution of attaining a second job.


This is me. Pulling a blogging disappearing act. Glasses, suit and all.

Let me tell you, a full load of condensed classes, plus a 50 hour work week, and no personal laptop, leaves no time to blog. The good news is that I was so focused on my classes that now that two of them have ended I have As in both of them, and in the two that end next month I have 98s in (in both). So that also takes care of another resolution (I did write on the blog that I wanted As and Bs, but in reality I wanted straight As. I’ve never done that before, more out of laziness than anything, and I wanted the challenge and the GPA boost). But this work load also meant no balance. Whatsoever. All my other resolutions fell to the wayside, since I sincerely have had no time. I have not worked out much at all, or meditated, or obviously, blogged.


So now, three months into the year, with two classes less I can begin focusing on those things that nurture my soul, as well as my future, one of them being blogging. I do plan to blog only about 2 times a week (and once I achieve the balance I crave) up that weekly blog post number. Of course I will continue to blog about hair, but I love blogging about other things such as recipes, beauty, and fashion, so stay on the lookout for those posts as well.


Thank you for reading The Naturaliste and for being a part of it. I look forward to continue this journey with all of you.

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Motivational Monday: How Long? Not Long!

For this year's first Motivational Monday video I think none is more fitting than this one. May he rest in peace. May his legacy endure forever, and may we always remember and live by his mission.


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